Emotional pain is never easy. I've been through it! Whilst each of us is different and handles emotional pain differently, we are all similar in that we have experienced some degree of emotional pain.
Surviving emotional betrayal is one thing but knowing if you are ready for another relationship is another thing. Four years ago when my emotions were betrayed by my ex boyfriend I swear to myself that I would never have another experience like that let alone be in another relationship. I promised myself that if by chance I do allow a guy to come into my life he would have it all together. Boy was I wrong. Today now I'm rethinking and re-evaluating, don't get me wrong, I still stand firm for the decisions I've taken four years ago but now I feel I am relationship ready. If you are in the same boat as me here's some help on knowing if you are relationship ready.
The following things are true of you if you are relationship ready or lovable:
You love the person you are
You love the place you are in right now
You respect all the lessons you've learned even the most painful ones
You are open, comfortable with change, and accepting of change and growth in others
Hope the above helps. Just be honest with yourself. It's the key :)
Tuesday, October 27, 2009
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