Why does he use so much sarcasm?

The man that i want who is loving me but not giving his love to me is spewing sarcasm from every angle at me when I ask for his advice. I told him I need a man and quick and he better try to help me get one. What was his answer? Put an ad in the papers. Does he really mean that? He sure is good at pretending about his feelings and horrible at comforting women. Now why did I reach out to him?

I'm having a rough time lately. My brother came home drunk and this circumstance just transported me back to when I was a child. I grew up with an alcoholic father. Many days spent with my father weren't always pleasant. Now my brother? Alcohol? Okay so he is under stress with the loses he has incurred over the past couple of months-his car-he was in an accident and now my cousin is stealing from him. My brother and I, we do not get along very well, so I'm treading on egg shells in case he trips on me. That was when I have decided to call the one person I want to be so dearly close to and I was greeted with sarcasm. Well I still appreciated that you lent a listening air my dear friend.